Chapter 4 of 6

When They Get Stuck

A five-second pause does more than a correction.

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Wait longer than feels comfortable

When a child stalls on a word, most adults supply it within two seconds. Count to five instead. Much of reading is a slow assembly the child can finish alone if the room stays quiet.

The ladder of help

Give the smallest help that works, in this order:

  1. Wait. Five silent seconds.
  2. Point. Tap the first letter or the first chunk.
  3. Sound the chunk. Say the first part, not the whole word.
  4. Give the word. Then reread the whole sentence together so the meaning closes.

Never end on the error

If a sentence was hard, read it once more, fluently, together. Children remember the last version they produced. Leaving a sentence broken teaches that reading is a series of failures; rereading it smoothly teaches that difficulty resolves.

What to do about guessing

Guessing from the picture is a strategy, not a crime, but it should not be the only one. If the guess is wrong, say: "That would make sense — check the letters." You have now praised the meaning-making and redirected the method.

Practice exercises

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  1. 1.A child stalls on a word. What comes first?

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  2. 2.After a hard sentence, you should…

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  3. 3.Your child guesses a word from the picture and gets it wrong. Write, word for word, what you would say.